Life Lessons for When Shit Happens
After many years of “winging it” as my preferred modus operandi, I knew I would have to become less spontaneous and more of a planner when I decided to launch this podcast two years ago. Once I decided to commit to it, I learned to become a planner and even found I liked it. But sometimes, in spite of our planning, things go sideways and shit happens. My husband and I just relocated for the second time in barely three years and the experience has been full of surprises, and not the good kind.
This episode is not about planning or being consistent, at least not directly. It is about the fact that many times in life, things do not go as we intend or expect, no matter how well we have planned. Life has an uncanny knack for throwing us just enough curveballs to have some of us thinking ‘why bother?” about planning, while others become humorless control-freaks trying to get life to conform to their will.
I decided to record this episode instead of the one I had planned in order to give you a behind the scenes look into some of my personal challenges, a peek into my podcast production process and share my perspective, evolution and growth as a human being. My life experiences over the past few weeks have been such a good reminder that we need to manage our mindset, not just our To Do list. My editor gave it a thumbs up, saying “this one is for the planner and perfectionist who sweats the small stuff and wants to control everything, that’s me.” I just knew if it spoke to her, it would speak to you too.
Discussed in this episode:
The limitations of planning and how they make us more resilient
Dealing with the emotions of disappointment, anxiety and frustration
Lessons from Buddhism about dealing with the unexpected
How to get through challenges by focusing on your values
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